Phone date with a youngin'

I was on a phone date with a young guy who lives about two hours from here. He wanted to go on a date the very next day but I told him that I have school. Then he was hinting around saying, "If I drive that far to come and see you, it would be hard for me to turn around and come back if it were only a short date. We could spend the entire day together but if it got late, I wouldn't want to drive back home." Uh huh, I know what he is hinting at. I told him, "Then I think a better idea is that you come here on Saturday and we can have a lunch date together. Then you don't have to drive home in the dark. You will have plenty of time."

Then he went into the "Do you have a roommate?" question. I don't even know this guy and he is already trying to get into my bed. What is it with these guys from India? I'm not familiar with the India culture. Do they just jump in bed with each other the first time they meet? Oh yeah, this one is from India, reminds me of the other phone date I had with a guy from India. (See "Is That A Snickers Bar in my Pocket" blog). This one is young, 28 years old. It seems too young for me.

You know I had to ask if he has his paper work, if he is a citizen or had his green card and guess what, he doesn't. So this is going to be the only date I go on with him. I am never going to fall into that trap again. I am still trying to overcome the drama and heart ache from the last foreigner that was looking for a way. People you have to be careful. Unfortunately, in the world we live in today we have to consider the bad intentions of others. Stay safe in everything you do.

UPDATE:
I decided to cancel the date with this one because later when talking on the phone, he still hinted about staying the night. If he is like that on the phone, I don't want to a bad situation. The issue with the government also made me feel uncomfortable so this one I am leaving under a log.