Lonliness comes in a tall package

When I arrived at the restaurant, he already had a table for us. He was sipping a cool margarita and was waiting with a long stem American beauty rose by his side.
A rose, that is a nice touch. I haven't received flowers in so long, I forgot what they smelled like. He stood up to great me. He had a tall self-conscious physique, broad shoulders, beautiful eyes, and a handsome smile.

He was so nervous his hands shook a little when gestured as he spoke in a quiet timid voice. Even though he had had almost 15 minutes looking at the menu he still didn't know what to order and just ordered the same as I did.

The man was very gentle and shy, being a widower, he was looking for someone to marry and continue on with his life. He talked very kindly of his late wife. I could tell he loved her very much. I can see he is a kind loving person and is looking for completion in his life. I am looking for that too, completion. Many arrogant and stupid people go about their lives thinking that relationships and marriage are about "wanting" and not "needing" but truly, it is seeking completion. God did not create us for us to be alone, The Bible is very clear on that. If the person you are with doesn't complete you, you are probably with the wrong person.

My heart goes out to this guy. From where I am sitting, he is a great guy but he has his life settled here in Wisconsin and the fist chance I get, I am out of here.
After dinner we saw a movie, he is nice, shy, and very kind. He kept asking me if I was comfortable and if he talked too much, etc. He was trying so hard to be a perfect date. Lord, please bless this man with the second woman you created for him.

Running a marathon alone

I was very much taken off guard by what he was saying in the email. He seriously needs to Sssllloooooowwwwwwwwww doooowwwwnn.

He called me later in the evening and we talked a little bit in the phone. I informed him that I wear hearing aids and I have a hard time hearing him on the phone so he spoke up that I might hear him better.

I understand that he is lonely because he is a widower and I genuinely feel sympathy for him. He just seems to be trying so hard and rushing things so fast. I mean, I haven't even met the guy yet in person. We have only talked on the phone twice and he thinks he is already developing feelings for me. It is a little intimidating and a little disturbing if I do say so myself.

We have a date set up for tomorrow and I will make it very clear to him that he is rushing things. I told him a number of times on the phone that he needs to settle down that he doesn't even know me. If this guy isn't careful, and gets mixed up with a bad woman, he could be taken advantage of terribly. Poor thing. Hey, I have a soft heart for helpless animals.

Quiet phone date

A man that has been trying to get contact me through a dating site online but honestly, these days I am just so busy. I felt bad and wanted to send him an email that I was not ignoring him but was just busy. Since I am new to this website, I sent a VIP email to him to say I didn't forget and wasn't ignoring him that I would contact him later in the week. I thought, that V.I.P. meant very important but apparently on this site it means, "Very Interested Person" Oops!

I saw that he was online so I called the number he sent me in an email. His voice was very quiet on the phone. Fortunately he talked a lot so I didn't have to. I think he was mostly walking about himself, his family, what he was interested in, etc. It was difficult for me to understand. It was a little late in the evening also so I had an good reason to get off the phone. He seem nice though, polite, plus, he is tall and bald just how I like them!

The email he sent me the next day ***